Syrian widow: What is the world waiting for?

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Editor’s note: CNN correspondent Arwa Damon reported from Baba Amr, a neighborhood in Homs, Syria, a city that has been a flashpoint in a months-long uprising against President Bashar al-Assad. Government forces have shelled parts of the city – especially Baba Amr, a bastion of anti-government sentiment –for two weeks, damaging houses and other buildings and leaving many dead and wounded.

Damon is one of the few international reporters in Syria, whose government has been placing restrictions on journalists and refusing many of them entry. Below is an edited account of what Damon and her team saw and heard from activists in Homs:

This small hall was once filled with laughter. Marriages took place here. Now the echoing sounds are not of joy, but of tragedy.

In this makeshift bunker, some of the families of Baba Amr who have nowhere else to go, huddle in this makeshift bunker. But, it offers them very little comfort.

“We’re not sleeping at night, we’re not sleeping during the day,” a man named Ilham howls. “The children are always crying, the bombs are coming down.”

Often they huddle in near darkness.

Some cover their faces, still afraid of the government’s relentless shelling. They are afraid, they said, they might lose more than they already have. Conditions here are desperate

In hard-hit Baba Amr, about 350 people who’ve fled their homes out of fear or necessity are living in this makeshift bunker.

Restricted by seemingly constant shelling and gunfire outside, they don’t have any medicine, let alone the ability to get to a hospital. Children are getting sick, and one woman recently gave birth there. They have little food – some lentils and rice and a little bread.

They fled here either because their homes were destroyed by shelling, or because the firing was getting too close.

Just about everyone in the bunker says they’ve either lost a loved one to the violence, or have a loved one who has been detained.

One woman’s son has been detained since the end of august, another woman’s son, this one right here for a month and a half.

We just walked in here and we’ve been swamped, bombarded by these people’s tragic stories here.

Most of them survive on basic staples of rice and lentils taken from a government warehouse nearby, but supplies are running low.

The room is one filled with endless stories of both death and despair.

Safa’as brother and husband were killed when a round struck their home 10 days ago. She can hardly pause to grieve or really comprehend what has happened.

“I have to keep going, I have to live for my children,” she says.

The activists take a moment to gather for our camera. All they want is to tell their stories.

“My husband died on the first day of the bombing, they didn’t let me see his body, it was shredded to pieces, “Umm Khidir recalls.”His blood is still in the streets and feel his son, he’s sick and there is no medicine.

“He keeps crying saying I want daddy, I want daddy, I can’t bring his daddy back, what is the world waiting for? For us to die of hunger and fear?”

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12 responses to “Syrian widow: What is the world waiting for?”

  1. 5thDrawer Avatar

    Unfortunately dear Safa’a and Umm, you and your compatriots are the little people who may have dared to ask for that extra bowl of porridge. What’s worse, is that you are a woman in a so-called ‘man’s world’ – which caves in around you.
     At best you are just one of the pawns in the games of despots. At worst, a piece of meat in an over-populated garbage bin – thrown away even by the dogs who enjoy watching how their artillery shells can knock down a house – with no care for who might be inside it.
    Try to avoid sickness, as they have arrested all the doctors who attempt to live up to their Hippocratic Oath.
    I know you live now only for your son … and you hope one day he will have something better. Hopefully he will remember his mother, and father … a little. If any of you live, count it as a miracle if you wish. But I think you should all pick a shroud when you can, and accept this lottery of life you have drawn.
    There are no knights in shining armour coming Safa’a and Umm. You are dead even if still on your feet. Sorry.
    We may remember your names thanks to one reporter.

    1. antar2011 Avatar
      antar2011

      that’s just heartbrakingly realistic..

    2. antar2011 Avatar
      antar2011

      that’s just heartbrakingly realistic..

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    Unfortunately dear Safa’a, you and your compatriots are the little people who may have dared to ask for that extra bowl of porridge. What’s worse, is that you are a woman in a so-called ‘man’s world’ – which caves in around you.
     At best you are just one of the pawns in the games of despots. At worst, a piece of meat in an over-populated garbage bin – thrown away even by the dogs who enjoy watching how their artillery shells can knock down a house – with no care for who might be inside it.
    Try to avoid sickness, as they have arrested all the doctors who attempt to live up to their Hippocratic Oath.I know you live now only for your son … and you hope one day he will have something better. Hopefully he will remember his mother, and father … a little. If any of you live, count it as a miracle if you wish. But I think you should all pick a shroud when you can, and accept this lottery of life you have drawn.
    There are no knights in shining armour coming Safa’a. You are dead even if still on your feet. Sorry.

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      Anonymous

      that’s just heartbrakingly realistic..

  3. antar2011 Avatar

    we, as poeple from tripoli, have asked the same question in 1987…i still remember the smell of death once we were able to go out after a month living underground….not to mention the fear of being descovered by syrian army and getting slughtered as other families in other parts of lebanon gotten…a long nightmare durig wakefulness…one month long…

    back then we have asked the same question and felt the same way…we didn’t have any help…no one helped us becuse the syrian army gained the upperhand but at the end we were able to come up albeit silent on the attrocities that were committed by the syrian army…we kept silent for long time…but i hope you don’t keep silent…don’t do the same mistake we did…
    i feel with you pple of Homs, may Allah bestow his mercy on you…keep praying and have patience, Allah will reward you with victory soon inshaAllah.

    1. tripoli will be next target for assad scums and shytant party of nasar shytan

      1. 5thDrawer Avatar

        Seems so Yazidi.  To some extent it already is. Friends there have already done 2 of Antar’s nights underground.

      2. 5thDrawer Avatar

        Seems so Yazidi.  To some extent it already is. Friends there have already done 2 of Antar’s nights underground.

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    we, as poeple from tripoli, have asked the same question in 1987…i still remember the smell of death once we were able to go out after a month living underground….not to mention the fear of being descovered by syrian army and getting slughtered as other families in other parts of lebanon gotten…a long nightmare durig wakefulness…one month long…

    back then we have asked the same question and felt the same way…we didn’t have any help…no one helped us becuse the syrian army gained the upperhand but at the end we were able to come up albeit silent on the attrocities that were committed by the syrian army…we kept silent for long time…but i hope you don’t keep silent…don’t do the same mistake we did…
    i feel with you pple of Homs, may Allah bestow his mercy on you…keep praying and have patience, Allah will reward you with victory soon inshaAllah.

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      tripoli will be next target for assad scums and shytant party of nasar shytan

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        Seems so Yazidi.  To some extent it already is. Friends there have already done 2 of Antar’s nights underground.

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